Tuesday, August 23, 2011

We're Back!

We are back!! We got home late Sunday afternoon, ate dinner and pretty much went to bed when Benjamin did. We were still pretty jetlagged yesterday and today and have been trying to go to bed early to help us catch up. We were not nearly this jetlagged traveling to Russia, but for some reason, it has been much worse returning to our own time zone! Our trip to Russia was pretty much amazing all the way around. God sent us all kinds of wonderful signs to show us His hand on Hope's life and this process. We will share some of those special details later ...

As for Hope, she is an adorable 2 1/2 year old with a big beautiful smile that will absolutely melt your heart! She is very affectionate, sweet, funny, smart, independent, focused and determined. And she likes everything to be neat, organized and in it's place! She will fit well into our family, lol! She is so precious and reminds us so much of her big brother, Benjamin. We wish we could share her photo with you, but we have been instructed not to post photos or any specific details about her identity on the internet until after the adoption is complete (and some details, like her medical and family history, can never be shared). That means we cannot share her photo by email either. If we see you in person, we will be happy to show you a picture. She is absolutely beautiful and precious!

She only has a few words, but she does speak Russian. She understands most of what is said to her, so we will need to know some words. We learned quite a few words and phrases while we were there and we were able to communicate with her quite well. I am amazed how God helped us and gave us what we needed when we needed it. But we really don't need to be fluent. As long as we know a little bit of Russian, we can help her learn her new language. Getting to know her as we did last week, she will have no trouble learning! She is a very smart little girl!

When we go back depends on the paperwork and the Russian courts. I personally feel that I should be awarded a masters degree for all the work that goes into this process! Regardless, I will be off the radar for a few weeks while I work hard at completing all of the remaining requirements. Please pray for strength, steadfastness, and expediency in the coming weeks as we do all the work that needs to be done to bring her home. And especially pray for Hope, who will be missing us very much while she is waiting. They will do a good job of explaining to her why we are not there, but it was really hard to leave her behind knowing she would not fully understand why we were gone. She is in a good place where they have and will continue to take good care of her. Still, leaving her there was very hard to do.

A few sweet stories we wanted to share before we go ...

When she walked into the orphanage director's room and we saw her face for the first time, she ran to Chad and threw her arms around him. We were told this is very rare as children in orphanages rarely see men. We felt it was a beautiful sign that she would be her daddy's girl. She gave him many, many hugs in the days that followed, but this one was a super special start to their relationship!

At the end of our first visit, her friends came out to the playground and she ran to them saying (in Russian) over and over again, "Mama and Papa came to me!" It was the last thing she said that day and it melted our hearts!

Before we left for Russia, we made a photo book of pictures of the three of us to give her. When we showed her Benjamin's picture (below) and told her that she has a big brother, she kissed it. The rest of the week, she would say "bye-shy-ah brot" (which means big brother) over and over. She loves him already and was so proud to show is picture (and ours) to her little friends and caregivers!


We will be happy to share more stories about Hope when we see you in person. Until then, thank you so much for all of your prayers and support throughout this long process. It has been felt and appreciated so much!!!

Friday, August 12, 2011

To Russia With Love!

Passports, check. Visas, check. Gift for Hope, check. Everything is just about packed and ready to go. Our passports and visas finally made it here yesterday. Our wonderful neighbor and friend literally chased the Fedex truck down the street for us so she could sign for it (we were at the sheriff's office getting fingerprinted for our dossier and missed the delivery) -- now that's friendship! :) So, we are all set to leave for Russia today and just about 24 hours from now, we will be checking into our hotel! We are still in awe at the events of the last 7 days. It seems so surreal. God has been truly gracious to us through all of you! And, while you are sleeping Sunday night, we'll be meeting Hope for the first time (it will be Monday morning there). Thanks again to everyone who helped us get ready with just one week's notice! We will post an update soon!

Monday, August 8, 2011

Thank you!

We just wanted to let everyone know that we now have everything on our needs list met -- God provided ALL of it in under 4 hours yesterday! A huge THANK YOU to everyone who responded! We are in awe at how the Lord is bringing together all the details and using each of you to help. We will keep posting updates on our blog over the coming days. This time next week, we will finally be face-to-face with our little girl!!!

PS - We can still use frequent flyer miles and hotel rewards for our second trip, which will likely take place in 2-3 months, so if you have any that you wish to donate, please let us know!

Sunday, August 7, 2011

Things we need for our trip!

Hello Friends and Family,

We have 5 days until we leave for Russia and are still working through a mountain of paper, tasks and our list of things to pack. We have most of what we need to travel, but are in need of the items below. To avoid the extra expense of having to purchase them on top of our travel expenses, we are asking if anyone can loan or donate any of the following items to us on short notice (on or before Wednesday). If you live out of town, there are still a few items on the list (like phone minutes or frequent flyer miles) you can help us with. Please let us know if you can help!

Phone minutes (Verizon)
Frequent Flyer Miles (Delta, Air France, Aeroflot)
Digital Camera (ours just stopped working unexpectedly this week!!!)
Digital storage (SD card 4 GB or more, preferrably 8 GB)
***need to use digital camera for videos and photos to send to international doctor while we are there so it needs to be good quality and large storage***
Luggage (2 carry on size with wheels and pull handles) -- we are going to try to travel light with carry on bags only!
***each bag must be no more than 55cm x 35cm x 25 cm***
200-watt auto adjust converter for converting power on our devices to 220-volt (we have one but two would be great as it only has one outlet)
Ink cartridges HP 56 (black) and HP 57 (color) for an HP 1200 printer (we have been going through lots of ink printing documents)
Marriott rewards (for one night hotel stay in Moscow)
Cash

We have one more really unusual item that we need. We are looking for a dual micro usb cable to charge both cell phones at the same time. Since our outlet capacity will be limited, we thought bringing something that could charge both cell phones at once would be a great way to consolidate. If you have one you are willing to loan (or donate to) us or if you know where we can find one quickly and cheaply, please let us know.

Also, please pray for our visas and passports to get back in time. I literally walked into Fedex at 8:57 p.m. (three minutes before they closed) to overnight our visa applications on Thursday so we have them back in time for our departure this week. I called on Friday to confirm that everything was done correctly and they said it looked good and that they would take it to the consulate on Monday. However, I noticed last night that I made a mistake on Chad's. I am hoping I caught it in time and can have it corrected! I am calling in the morning to try and fix it. Please pray there would be no delays in the processing and delivery/return of our visas and passports due to my error!!!

Thank you to anyone who can help us with any of these items and to everyone who is, was and will be praying for our trip! We appreciate it so very, very much!!

Friday, August 5, 2011

We are going to Russia!!!

It's official: We are going to Russia! We got the call this morning and have spent most of the day on the phone, working on our travel arrangements, and completing our visa applications. WE LEAVE IN 9 DAYS ... AHHHHHH!!! Needless to say, it has been a whirlwind of a day and my head is already spinning with all the things we need to do!

We will post updates as often as we can over the coming weeks. Right now, though, we are simply basking in the joy of this moment and thanking God for His faithfulness. If all goes well, we could have Hope home by Christmas. And what a Christmas present she would be ...

"Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life." ~ Proverbs 13:12